Everyday Life

  • The Unexpected Freedom Of Caring Less

    The Unexpected Freedom Of Caring Less

    For years, I thought I needed to be friends with everyone. I’d volunteer to bring the birthday cake for people I barely knew and somehow believed being the life of the party was part of my personality. Turns out, I’m an ambivert—and growing older gave me permission to stop pretending…

  • Mumbai’s Long-Distance Marriage With The Monsoon

    Mumbai’s Long-Distance Marriage With The Monsoon

    Every year, Mumbai greets the first spell of rain like a long-distance partner returning home after months away. We make plans, fry pakoras, sit by the window and forget every inconvenience… until the honeymoon ends a few weeks later.

  • Why Ordinary Days Matter More Than Milestones

    Why Ordinary Days Matter More Than Milestones

    Most Indians grow up believing happiness comes after achievement — good grades, a stable career, marriage, financial security. Especially for women, adulthood can begin to feel like an endless series of milestones to chase. This essay explores comparison culture, modern Indian womanhood, and why learning to enjoy ordinary life may…