modern relationships

  • Dating Gets Different When Everyone Has History

    Dating Gets Different When Everyone Has History

    Dating in your 40s is a different sport. Everyone comes with an ex, a few emotional scars, a couple of questionable decisions and, if you’re lucky, a funny story about how they got there. The hard part is figuring out which of it belongs in the past—and which of it…

  • The Year You Stop Chasing Potential

    The Year You Stop Chasing Potential

    We spend years falling in love with who people could become instead of who they already are. Somewhere between hope and compromise, we stop trusting what people consistently show us. This is the year I stopped chasing potential and started believing patterns.